Mr. Mom

Yesterday Jenny took a well-deserved break from Brenden duty and went to Canton with my sister (taking a well-deserved break from her own mommyhood) and my mom. I stayed home (Canton makes me twitch) so Brenden and I could have Guy Day. It wasn’t the first time I’d kept him alone, but it was one of the longest days.

It’s always interesting to stay home and have full charge of a little person. He was fully dependent on me, and only me, for his food, sleep, diapers, and safety. If something weird happened, I had to fix it. I could call the expert, but she was 2 hours away. Brenden’s routine is pretty solid, and most of the time we can figure out what’s wrong when he’s upset, so I used those facts to my advantage. We actually had a very nice day: a couple of solid meals and bottles, a loooooong morning nap and a shorter afternoon nap, and lots of playing. Since it was Guy Day, we had to make a run to Lowe’s for a home improvement product (single-pole light switches this time to replace our dimmers – don’t worry, I’ll handle the wiring). To make Grampy proud, we also went to Sam’s (one of his favorite stores) and got some light bulbs. During his naps and solo play time, I also managed to unpack some boxes, lay some contact paper, and put away some laundry. I felt very domestic. I should have made a cake or something.

Finally Jenny came home. Even though I’m glad she gets to take breaks, it’s always reassuring when she gets back. She’s more experienced with babies than I am and knows Brenden’s signs and routine better. In IT terms, she is the Level 2 support, the one who gets the calls that the Level 1 people like me can’t handle.

I also got to experience firsthand something that Jenny has described several times: babies steal part of your brain when you’re around them long enough. I used to have (I think) a pretty good memory and was fairly responsible. I could show up on time for an appointment or party. If I made a mental note to do something, I did it. But after a day of watching B and then scrambling to gather all his stuff for church, I forgot a crucial ingredient for a Brenden meal: a bib. At least I remembered the diapers!

Observations from a mommy – 7 month edition

-if there’s no Feb 30th, does that mean that Brenden gets to be 6 months old another month?
-he’s on the verge of crawling, but hasn’t quite figured out how to put all the moves together yet. So for now he just goes backwards and gets mad.
-Brenden is never still. Ever. He even moves in his sleep. However, this means that he’s a very good sleeper. Once you lay him down, it takes 2 seconds for him to fall asleep!
-He’s developing a “let’s get in trouble together” smile. My mom says both Andy and I have that same smile.
-He’s become quite fond of prunes. Yuck.
-In order to change his outfit or diaper, you’ve got to move fast. He can flip over and try to take off rolling if you’re not quick enough!
-We got him one of those doorway jumpers and he seems to like it. However, he still hasn’t quite mastered jumping in it, so for now he just spins in circles and laughs.
-He’s “talking” quite a bit – but we don’t know what he says. 🙂 Sometimes it sounds like he’s cussing in baby since most of his talking happens when he’s frustrated.
-We’ve moved on to formula since the well had run dry. Everyone keeps asking me if I’m sad about that, but I feel like a weight has been lifted off my shoulders. I was always worried that he wouldn’t get enough to eat. Now I can measure and know how much he’s really getting.
-I’m so not ready for him to crawl. We don’t have enough space! I’m going to have to spend my days chasing him around the coffee table. The coffee table may not survive.
-We had a family portrait done at Target last week – and he did really well! He was really interested in the camera. That helped. Hopefully we can post a few once we get them back. Maybe next week.
-He’s become fascinated with whatever toy Reagan is playing with – no other toy will do. And Reagan has become fascinated with watching him eat solids. It’s too funny to see them react to each other.
-He’s 1/2″ away from being too big for his car seat, so we bought him a new big boy seat. This thing is amazing – he’ll have it as a booster until he doesn’t need any seat at all anymore. It’s great! But we are a little sad to be losing the bucket. It makes him seem so grown up.
-Since the bucket is about to be history, we’re working on sitting in restaurant seats and shopping carts without it. He’s still a little wobbly, especially if he’s tired, but he’s getting the hang of it.
-I can’t wait until it warms up a little and I can take him to the park for the first time. I think he’s gonna love slides. He’s a little bit of a daredevil.

That’s all for now! Have a great week!

Time Off

Sorry I’ve been so quiet on here lately. It’s been really busy around the Box household! I did just update Brenden’s page with the latest on his development and some cute pics. Jenny has lots of great pics on Facebook. If you’re not on Facebook, you need to join so you can see our cute pics. Anyway, I just came off a 7-day stretch and now have several days off unless I get some more overtime.

As many of you know already, we have an exciting project in the works that’s taking up some of our time and much of our mental energy. Unfortunately we can’t go public yet, but we hope to soon. For now just know that God is putting together the pieces for an exciting new adventure. I had a trainee at work for a couple of days, a really great guy who used to dispatch for Champion Air and Northwest. Brenden is doing great. We await his slightly overdue 6-month checkup on Thursday to see whether his head has rounded out acceptably. Since he normally sleeps on his stomach now (by his choice), I don’t know what else we can do! He’s eating all sorts of stuff now that Jenny fixes up for him. I’ll definitely try to blog more over this coming break, so check back in a bit.

Observations from a Not-so-new Momma – the half a year addition

On Friday, Brenden turns 6 months old! Happy half year, Bubs! Here’s some new info on the little guy:

1. Once we leveled out the mattress and “set him free” so to speak (no more swaddling or “nest”), Brenden figured out he could scoot and roll and have fun in the bed. I’ve started trying to take pictures of the weird positions he sleeps in.

2. He also came up with the fun game of “throw the pacifiers out of the crib”. We now have at least two to three in there to combat the game.

3. He is now seriously teething. I still can’t find any little teeth buds, but he’s got lots of the symptoms – flushed cheeks, drool, chewing on everything, doesn’t like solids, crankyness, etc.

4. Due to the teething, he’s become very difficult to feed. I actually took him to the doctor last week thinking he was sick because he freaked out every time we tried to feed him solids. We finally figured out it was teething and found the formula: oragel+no cereal+cold food+a little yogurt = happier eater

5. Feeding him solids has become the new thing this month. So far, he’s tried: avocado, sweet potato, bananas, pears (thanks Great GrandButlers!), apple juice, oatmeal and rice cereal, and yogurt. Favorite so far – yogurt (whole milk organic active cultures yogurt). Least fav – bananas. Avocados are a close second fav.

6. Most people who know me know that I am not “granola” in any way, but having a baby has made me much more interested in what I put in both me and him. I’m making my own baby food and buying organic veggies. Since he likes yogurt so much, I’m even going to try to make my own!

7. He’s getting closer to crawling, but not quite there yet. However, if you put him on the floor and lay down a little bit away from him, he figured out how to squirm his way over to you and he’s very proud of himself when he does.

8. I just downloaded a bunch of pictures off our old camera – normally Andy uses the good one and I walk around with the older one since I usually forget to take pictures of anything. I just found pics all the way back to our Disney trip. I’ll try to put some of the good ones on Facebook and let Andy pretty up the other ones for here.

9. B is starting to get hair. Actually, he’s had some hair, but now he actually has hair you can see. It’s oddly blond. I don’t know where he got that.

10. Now that we’ve started solids, he’s going to bed earlier and sleeping later. I think it’s the combo of heavier food and all the activity during the day – he doesn’t stay still. Ever. Unless you put him in a bath. That seems to be a serious activity that requires concentration.

11. I’ve started giving him baths at night before bed – you can pretty much count on him starting to get cranky and sleepy by the time bath is over and pj’s are on. He falls asleep within 5 minutes after that. It’s really nice. Hopefully he’ll continue to be a good sleeper for a while!

12. The bigger he gets, the more I want to throw furniture out the window so we have floor space. Who needs seating? Isn’t that what the floor is for?

13. We went to the store yesterday and bought every kind of fruit/veggie that counts as “first foods” for a baby. Including prunes. Lord, help us all. yuck. So far today I’ve made six ice cube trays worth of food, with probably enough stuff for six more at least. He’s set for a few months – then there’s a whole new list of foods he can eat!

14. I’m starting to look into different web-based services to make a scrapbook of B’s first year. So far I’ve looked at www.cropmom.com and www.shutterfly.com. Anybody have any other recommendations? I have a few beautiful handmade scrapbooks that I just need to print out the pics for as well – he’s going to be one well documented kiddo.

Hope you are all doing well! Come by and see us sometime – B loves visitors!

Happy six months!

Happy six months!

These are a few of my favorite things…

Sing with me! 🙂

I figured I’ve been a mommy long enough now to have a few favorite things, so I thought I’d share in case anyone out there needs some tips.

So, in no particular order:

1. LUVS Diapers These are wonderful! B tends to be very “productive” at night, and we have yet to have a mess. They’re cheap, too, especially at diapers.com if you catch a good coupon code.
2. Medicine Pacifiers When B first was diagnosed with reflux, and the pharmacist handed me this set of pills and said to mix it with a teaspoon of water and feed it to the baby, I looked at her like she was crazy. A teaspoon doesn’t sound like much, but for a baby, that’s a lot of liquid to take in all at once. These pacifier things are great – they have a little reservoir on the back of them that comes off, so you just fill it with whatever they need to take and – voila! – no mess or unhappy baby. We got ours at Walgreens and I plan on getting one for every new momma as a present!
3. Zip up sleepers Since B is so big for his age – about to outgrow 9 month outfits at 5 months! – it’s been hard to find him clothes that still make him look like a baby instead of a big kid. I’m not ready for big kidness yet! These sleepers are warm, fuzzy, and he looks snuggly in them. And I don’t feel like I should be taking him out for a walk or getting him his driver’s license.
4. Hand blenders I just got this thing last night, and already I’m in love. B is just on the edge of starting solids. He’s doing great with rice cereal, so we’re hoping to introduce new stuff starting tomorrow. I wanted to try to make my own baby food, since several of my friends have done it and said it was easy. I have a huge food processor, but it’s so hard to clean up. This thing works great – I just made enough avocado, banana, and sweet potato “cubes” to last him about 2 weeks! The banana took all of 2 minutes to mush since I didn’t have to cook it first! And we all know how I feel about bananas, so the less time in the presence of one, the better.
5. Fisher Price Space Saver High Chair Our table is a bar height table, which means that a normal high chair wasn’t going to work – he’d be looking under the table. So we got this little one that straps to a chair, and it’s great. B will sit in it while we’re eating and just play with a toy, so we can all sit at the table together and eat. It also tilts just enough so that he’s not straight up and down, which is still hard for him. And we can take it anywhere, so if he’s going to spend the day with a grandparent, it comes with us and they don’t have to have an extra chair in the way.
6. Jumperoos If you haven’t seen one of these things in action, you are missing out. Basically, it’s a seat with bungee cords on all four sides. Some of them attach to a door frame, ours has it’s own frame because we don’t have a good door to use. It’s got toys all the way around to play with, and when he’s been cooped up for a while, B loves to just jump and jump and jump. It’s a good way to work off some energy – I wish they had adult sizes!
7. Sue Boynton books If you haven’t read Moo, Baa, Lalala or Snuggle Puppy, you are missing out. All of her books are board books, so they’re thick pages that can be man-handled by little hands. And they are all very silly. Silly enough to make an adult giggle, and plenty silly to send kiddos into fits of laughter. There are tons of them, and I think B will need the entire collection in time.
8. Skippyjohn Jones books Despite Andy’s serious logic issues with these (ask him about the shape up book), these are great, too. Skippyjohn is a sweet little siamese cat that has lots of educational adventures. For some reason, Brenden adores these books. I might prefer Snuggle Puppy, but he’s grabbing for Skippyjohn Shapes Up every time.
9. Sippy cups with silicone lids We just started using these, and they’re fabulous. They don’t leak – Brenden can throw them around and nothing comes out. That is, until he sucks on one then spits out whatever was in it. But that’s more of a leaky son issue than a leaky cup.
10. Recipes on the internet and Super Baby Foods Like I said before, I’m learning to make my own baby food, because it’s cheaper and you have control over exactly what is in it. My two weeks of food I made this morning probably cost a total of $2.50. Not bad! I got a book called Super Baby Foods for Christmas, and it has a ton of good info in it. There are a few things that I wasn’t sure about, so I looked up “making your own baby food” on the net. There are HUNDREDS of websites with recipes, tips, tricks, and ideas out there! Mommies of the world, unite!

That’s it for now, I’m sure there are lots of other favorites. I’ll close with my favorite new pic of B:

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