Retirement for Jenny

As expected, the larger Brenden gets, the less comfortable Jenny becomes. With less than 6 weeks left until his due date, it’s getting harder and harder for her to sleep at night and then get up in the morning for work. She has all her significant projects wrapped up, and she has trained her partner on the specifics of her job. With all of this in mind, she has decided to make July 3 her last day at SWA.

I am extremely proud that my wife not only works for SWA, but has done such an outstanding job. In less than 5 years, she’s gotten 2 promotions. She processed mountains of paperwork, decorated cubes, scheduled pilot interviews and welcomed the candidates when they arrived, interviewed potential employees, traveled all over the country, organized a variety of highly successful events for new hires including the Luv at First Bite luncheons and the Duck Derby, displayed crazy Microsoft Office skills, enriched the culture of the People department and the entire company, and shared her LUV, joy, and creativity with literally hundreds if not thousands of people. Even after Brenden started getting bigger and making it hard for her to sleep, she dealt with it and successfully completed her final big project, the Duck Derby. She has many, many friends at Southwest who will miss her greatly and plan to make her come back often with Brenden in tow.

If she chose, she could easily spend her entire career at SWA and do fantastic things for decades to come. But instead she’s going to stay home, at least for a while, for the important work of raising our son to be a healthy, well-balanced, and Godly little man. We’re both grateful that her staying home is an option and both willing to sacrifice as needed to make it possible. It’s not the right answer for everyone, but it’s what we want, and I am confident that we’ll be happy with this choice.

Congratulations on a job well done, love! You are awesome!

Marriage for the Longhaul

Saturday night we went to Jenny’s parents’ house for a cookout to celebrate Father’s Day, Eric’s and Jim’s birthdays, and Jenny’s parents’ anniversary. Some of their family friends came over, as did Katy and Eric. As usual we had a great time. On the way home, we reflected briefly on what seems like an anomaly in America: the longevity of our people’s marriages. On Monday Jenny’s parents will celebrate their 36th anniversary. Two other couples there were just behind them, at around 33-34 years. My parents will celebrate their 35th this December. My mom’s parents are approaching their 60th. Jenny’s dad’s parents have already reached 60 years. Naturally none of these marriages is perfect, but they’ve all been strong enough to last for longer than I’ve been alive. We are grateful to have such a stable family foundation on both sides and hope to celebrate our own 50th anniversary someday. We believe God intends marriage to be permanent and committed on our wedding day to make our marriage a permanent bond. Marriage is supposed to be like Krazy Glue, not a Post-It Note.

More than one writer has said that the most important thing parents can give to their children is a strong marriage, which provides them a sense of security and a host of other benefits. After Brenden arrives, we plan to work hard to keep our marriage strong and not make him the center of our universe, no matter how cute and wonderful he might be. So if you’d like to babysit sometime so we can go on date night, we accept with gratitude.

Time Off

I am currently enjoying a much-needed three-day break. As usual, I’ve found plenty to fill it. In addition to spending some quality time with the PS3 myself, last night Jenny and I watched Red Sonja, a childhood classic (?) “B.O. movie” that she used to watch with her dad. It’s funny how the same movie can seem so wonderful as a kid and then…less than wonderful as an adult. As usual, Ah-nold reminded me of what a girlie man I am, but I just don’t have the time or motivation to work out that much. We also packed our hospital bags, which helped us realize that Brenden really is coming soon, very soon!

Today I’m working on Brenden’s closet, which is full of junk that needs to be in the garage. I also moved Jedda’s stuff out of his area so it’s more sanitary and pleasant. I’m also supposed to be helping Brenden with his thank-you notes, but I’m on a roll with cleaning (which is rare), so they might need to wait until tonight after our breastfeeding class.

Happy Mother’s Day!

I want to wish all the current and future moms out there a very happy Mother’s Day! We took my mom and grandmother out to Babe’s Chicken Dinner House tonight and will have lunch tomorrow with Jenny’s mom. Friday night I took Jenny out to Red Lobster and gave her a pedicure. She says I have mad toe-painting skillz. And she is correct. Next time you see her, ask to check out her feet.

I also want to give props to my mom for being such a fantastic CARES volunteer. We have lots of great volunteers, but Mom normally helps with at least one event per month, sometimes more, and she would help more often if we asked her to/let her. Even on the day before Mother’s Day, she gave up her Saturday morning to cook french toast and sausage at our breakfast event. She rocks! Our residents love her, too. She’s so cool that a couple of residents even ask about her when she’s not there! Thanks again for all your help, Mom.

Stay, Reagan, Stay!

My sister Lisa has been placed on bed rest and medication due to preterm contractions. She’s at 21 weeks, so her baby girl Reagan is about halfway cooked but needs more time. Please pray for them! I plan to bring her lots of movies to watch, and our mom is over there a lot to help out. I thought about loaning her our Wii until I realized that it probably wouldn’t be a good idea. =) Anyway, she’s chilling at home and, like any bored person would do, surfing AndyBox.com. So I dedicate this post to her and pledge to work hard to keep her entertained!

“Isn’t childbirth grounds for makeup tests?”
“It always has been.”

In the Mail

Several pieces of snail mail I’ve received in my lifetime stand out for me, such as:

  • My first published article (a two-page on quiet times, published in a small Christian teen magazine)
  • My wait-list letter from Rice University (significant not because I still wanted to go by that point, since I’d already decided on Baylor, but because my pride wanted me to say I’d actually been accepted to Rice and not wait-listed)
  • My care packages from Mom and Dad at Baylor
  • My offer letter from Southwest
  • My first commendation letter from Colleen (SWA President)
  • My first issue of Parenting magazine (this week)

Yep, we have a trial subscription. Where’s my minivan and soccer practice schedule?